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A Womanist

Monday, March 10th, 2008

sistergirl

If a picture is worth a thousand words, the expression on this little girl’s face says it all.  She’s not impressed. She’s smart. She’s willful. She’s courageous. She questions authority. She acts grown. “Womanish” is how the women in my neighborhood would have described her. 

I wonder what the little brown girl was thinking as the President of the United States bent over and whispered in her ear.

Somehow I Knew

Monday, April 30th, 2007

There are things we know that we don’t know we know. It’s called instinct, intuition, a hunch, gut feeling, or sixth sense. It’s a gift that God gives to each of us. With this gift, this intuition, people have been known to make split second decisions.

Tracie Dean drove 300 miles out of her way in January 2006 to follow up on a gut feeling she had about a little girl she happened upon at a convenience store. The little girl seemed frightened by the man in whose care she was the day Dean encountered them at an Alabama convenience store. The look on the child’s face staring up at Dean told the older woman that something wasn’t right. Luckily, Dean took down the man’s license plate number. Four days later and back home in Georgia, Dean was unable to find the girl’s picture on any of the missing children’s databases she located on the Internet. Dean then got in her car and drove three hundred miles back down to Alabama. She persuaded the convenience store owner to let her view the surveillance tapes of the day she met the little girl. While viewing the tapes a sheriff’s deputy walked into the store. Dean convinced him to view the tapes with her and to look into the matter. He did. Clues led the deputy to a mobile home in Alabama, where the horror story of extensive child abuse at the hand of a convicted sex offender began to disturbingly unfold.

Asked what made her drive back down to Alabama, Dean responded: “It was a God thing,” she said. “It was in my heart just to keep driving.”

Thoughtful Westerners look with contempt upon intuition, describing it as emotional, hysteria, unreasonable, or women’s foolishness. That brings to mind a woman in the bible whose instincts were dismissed. Based on a dream she’d had the night before Pilate’s wife sent a message to her husband warning him to look beyond appearances at the man who would be dragged into the governor’s court that day for sentencing (Matt. 27:19).

Each of us makes important behavioral predictions on our own all the time, without the help of experts. We make predictions about danger. “Should I chance it across the parking lot to my car this time of night?” “Can I trust this stranger?” Come to think about it, we have been studying people since we were infants, picking up clues from our environment on who feels right and who doesn’t, who we can trust and who we must go out of our way to avoid.

Poet and professor Nikki Giovanni had to threaten to quit in order to get her department to remove Cho Seung-Hui from a poetry class she was teaching there at Virginia Tech in 2005. His demeanor was menacing and his poetry was so disturbing that it became impossible to teach the class. “I’ve taught crazy people,” said Giovanni. “It was the meanness that bothered me. It was a really mean streak.” Then head of the department, Lucinda Roy, agreed to tutor Cho privately. But after a few sessions with him she grew scared and devised a “code word” she gave to an assistant so that if she felt threatened by the guy, the assistant knew to call the police.

Intuition is just listening. Listening for whispers from the soul.