Thursday, November 5th, 2009

Girl, Put Your Records On (Part 2)

I need a new playlist for the mood I’m in.

It’s a quiet, moody, contemplative kinda mood that I’m in these days.  Would love to crawl in a safe, dark hole and stay there with my thumb in my mouth. But light is the only thing that’s keeping me alive. Feeling kinda weepy, but don’t have cause to outright cry. Sad and joyful in the same breath. Got some decisions to make. But they will require moody record playerme to revisit some old places in my mind to find the answers I’m after. Don’t want to go there, but I gotta go to get where I need to be. Don’t wanna have to do anything, but don’t want not to be needed.  Don’t wanna talk, but don’t wanna be alone.

Watchin’ God watchin’ me.

One of those times when I wish I were a poet.

Never fails. Something about the change of season, especially the dawn of autumn, that drives me to the cave.

In the meantime, I’m on the search for some mature, mellow, contemplative ballads. Got any suggestions?

Here’s what I’m listening to these days…

Barbara Streisand, “Everything Must Change”
Stevie Wonder, “A Place in the Sun”
Christopher Cross, “Sailing”
Bette Midler, “The Rose”
James Ingram and Patti Austin, “How Do You Keep The Music Playing?”
India Arie, “Healing”
Curtis Mayfied, “It’s Alright”
Lala Hathaway and Joe Sample, “When The Word Turns Blue”
Otis Redding, “Sitting on the Dock of the Bay”
Nina Simone, “For All We Know”
Patti Austin, “Miss Otis Regrets”

And finally,….

Lizz Wright’s 2008 “The Orchard” is breaking my heart with its smooth, serene vibe. Wright defies easy categorization. She’s jazz, soul, blues, and everything else wrapped up with a ribbon on top. On The Orchard she’s folk singer extraordinaire with that rich, expressive tone of hers. I can piddle around the house all day drinking herbal tea in my pajamas listening to anything that comes from Lizz Wright’s vocal chords.

Like I said, I’m on the search for some contemplative ballads. What’s on your playlist these days?

33 comments so far

Dr. Weems,
Please check out Ruthie Foster’s music (infused with soul, gospel, folk & r&b:
Older CD called Stages; Recommend songs; Another Rain Song, Get Outta My Way, Lost In the City, Walk On & Prayin’ for Rain. She has some Sam Cooke flava to some of her songs. Also, her latest CD called ” The Truth According to Ruthie”. You will be amazed and inspired.

Enjoy & Be Blessed,
Janet

Janet Ingram
November 5th, 2009 at 11:15 am

Thanks Janet! This is my first time hearing of Ruthie Foster. Just checked her out on YouTube, and I like what I hear. Thanks.

Renita
November 5th, 2009 at 11:31 am

I love Minnie Riperton, like “Les Fleur” and “Memory Lane”
You could always add more Stevie to the list :-) “Visions” “If its magic”
and any Donny Hathaway

jlew
November 5th, 2009 at 11:52 am

you can’t go wrong with Eva Cassidy and Cynthia Clawson’s Broken CD

Jo Lentz
November 5th, 2009 at 4:11 pm

Well, I feel your mood in some ways, but my mood is from being a mid-twenty something in search of love, dreams, sometimes acceptance, and all the other things that you worry about when you are in your twenties.

Well, I have been falling in and out of consciousness with Kurt Elling and Esperanza Spalding.

The songs I would recommend for contemplation:

Esperanza Spalding’s Precious
Esperanza Fall in
Kurt Elling’s I like the Sunrise
Kurt Elling’s Not While I’m Around
Etta James’ Calling You or Natalie Cole’s version
Adele’s Hometown Glory

Fal
November 5th, 2009 at 4:21 pm

Also, I would add India Arie’s River Rise and Lizz Wright’s Fire.

Fal
November 5th, 2009 at 5:25 pm

I created this 13 Song playlist. representing transformation for the late Phyllis Hyman.. a fellow Cancerian.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrbM4UcAAdo

AkaziaJ
November 5th, 2009 at 6:18 pm

Dr. Weems I am glad to see that you listen to some jazz and r&B too I like them both but sometimes I’m careful my husband is a Pastor and one time I was listening to some Luther in the parking lot and one of the member of my church pulled up and frowned at me like I wasn’t supposed to be listening to only gospel which I love. My question is why do some of the traditional older women of the church think it’s bad to listen to anything other than gospel

LW
November 5th, 2009 at 6:53 pm

Well, if what you wrote isn’t poetry, then what is. You have lyrics to a a great song, sista and while you are in your mood, take a voice recorder, see what happens when a melody comes to your head and put a rough down. –Now you have a song. lol –Seriously, with a tweaking of the first line, you got it. –If you are not inclined to put your own melody, good melody makers would love to collaborate with you. –What do you hear when you think of your words as lyrics, melody wise? –If you need a melody maker I have a few on the serious music scene who would work with you and I am not talking about myself. –This is where I teach. lol — I am recommending you put your own song on your list.

Peace and waiting to hear it!

TRe
November 5th, 2009 at 10:08 pm

Maybe Fall (Oct–Nov) is a contemplative season. I’m listening to the following for reflection and motivation to get going.
India.Arie = Strength, Courage, and Wisdom
K’Jon = On the Ocean
J Moss = Restored
Brian Courtney Wilson = All I Need
Kurt Whalum = I Must Tell Jesus
I’m looking forward to checking out what the others have suggested. I need to broaden my music scope.

snb
November 6th, 2009 at 9:21 am

Ya’ think so, Tre? I certainly wasn’t trying to be poetic, certainly not a lyricist.

Kudos to Val my friend, a REAL poet, for taking my words and doing just what Tre dared me to do. Val turned my blogpost into a poem. A beautiful poem. I plan to post it on Sunday ’cause it’s a Sunday kind of a poem. Thanks Val. The audio file came through too, and I’m listening to you reading your poetry. Ahhhh…

Renita
November 6th, 2009 at 4:22 pm

Hmmmm….
Fertile Ground
Lucia Iman - Angel
Marc A. Evans - Crescent Moon - great voice, covers jazz, funk, soul, and house
Frank McComb - another great voice
Jazz and Instrumental: (Marc Antoine - “Unity” on Cafe Del Mar 2, St. Germain - Soul Salsa Soul, Urban Knights)
Ladysmith Black Mambazo

Sometimes it gets so I need guitar strings to mellow me out…Tracey Chapman, Karen Briggs, Upside Down by Jack Johnson, James Morrison’s Undiscovered, Alice Smith, Amos Lee, Ben Harper,

tamecia
November 6th, 2009 at 8:36 pm

Alright sistas, get to producing. It’s a whole world who needs to have some good stuff on their playlist. –RJM I am as serious as rain in Atlanta this year. LOL

TRe
November 7th, 2009 at 9:26 am

Been playing Ledisi’s Higher Than This on repeat! And I’m with snb on K’Jon. Lastly, Eric Roberson — Dealing featuring Lalah Hathaway

TalentedTenth
November 7th, 2009 at 1:49 pm

yep, Lizz Wright’s “The Orchard”, especially the second track “My Heart” is da bomb! Also, Miriam Makeba’s “Pata Pata”, her first big hit. Mahalia Jackson’s “How I Got Over” and the song from the movie ‘Imitation of Life’, “Trouble of the World.” (Yes, it still makes me cry.) :)

Also most recently, anything Earth, Wind and Fire, “That’s The Way of The World”, “Reasons”, “True Devotion”, “Keep Your Head To The Sky”, “Shining Star”, “Be Ever Wonderful”, “Open Our Eyes” which is also a beautiful prayer. Lastly, for the old school hip hop in me, Michael Franti and Spearhead’s latest cd and dvd, “All Rebel Rockers”, especially the second track and accompanying video, “Hey World(Remote Control Version). :) :) :)

RevMamaAfrika
November 7th, 2009 at 8:57 pm

A little late, but Randy Crawford (Trade winds), Jean Carne, and Tara Alexander (Full Circle). Two old school sisters and one new. All three on you tube.

Jeralyn
November 9th, 2009 at 6:58 am

Well when I get like that I listen to:
I Do Love You - Billy Stewart
Sitting in the Park - Billy Stewart
Cow Boys to Girls - The Intruders
Say a Little Prayer for You - Dionne Warwick Guilty - Al Green
Guess Who I Saw Today - Nancy Wilson

Enjoy!

Lurecie

Lurecie Stokes
November 9th, 2009 at 5:39 pm

huge agreement on Fertile Ground! Rev Weems, please check them out, especially “Come to Me”, “Broken Branches”, and “Be Natural” — an ode to the napptural.

jlew
November 10th, 2009 at 6:41 am

oh, and did I mention that I have the 1969 “Diana Ross Presents the Jackson 5″ album? As in vinyl? That I also have the 45s of “I Want You Back”, “ABC”, “Got To Be There”, etc.? And that I also have the 1964 “Mahalia Jackson’s Greatest Hits” with ‘Walk in Jerusalem’, ‘In The Upper Room’, etc.? And no, I’m not selling them on eBay!
:) :)

RevMamaAfrika
November 10th, 2009 at 11:02 am

“Something about the autumn, drives me to the Cave”

This sentence really captured the essence of where I am right now.

I am a 28-year-old who has been living with her parents for the past year to heal from “life’s bruises.” I returned home, only to find out that these bruises originated here.

Since then, I have gotten my minister’s license and am preparing to move to Korea. When I informed my parents that I am leaving on Monday, the tantrums began. I tried to have a reasonable conversation and my dad left with a slammed door and a snide phrase that left me feeling wounded.

I felt like hurting myself–overeating, drinking sugary coffee, any poison of my choice.I felt like a little girl again.

By the grace of God, I did not resort to any of those familiar coping mechanisms that have kept me stuck in this living arrangement.

Like Dr. Weems, I have had some decisions to make today. I asked myself, what’s best for me and I proceeded to make a plan.

I packed up my healthiest meals (abstaining from bulimia), my favorite books, athletic trophies, and clothing.

The following inspirational songs played on the radio and revived my Christian faith once again,

Clark Sisters, “He Brought the Sunshine”

Tye Tribbett, “Victory”

Billie Holliday, “God Bless the Child”

I was about to leave my cat, but after seeing “Precious” this past weekend, it would be analogous to me leaving my newborn baby wrapped in swaddling clothes on the cold floor of an abusive household.

It’s toxic and I have decided to leave. After I post this message, I will pack up my car, pick up my cat, and head to a destination uknown……and oh yeah, I will put my “records” on.

Zoe Magdala
November 10th, 2009 at 1:58 pm

Can’t get blue now….I’ll save that for another day

Zoe Magdala
November 10th, 2009 at 1:58 pm

Giiirrrlllll,
I know exactly how you feel. Just wanna close my eyes and sleep for a day and maybe it will all go away. Some of it is my fault … tippin when I should have been tappin. And then letting it all go until I have to address it. Thank you for the songs. That’s a play list waitin to happen at my house.
Blessings, Alicia

Alicia
November 10th, 2009 at 2:40 pm

Dr. Weems,
Check out Wayman Tisdale Presents 21 Days…

Jonetta
November 10th, 2009 at 4:32 pm

Asa pronounced Asha a Nigerian born in Paris.
LadySmith and Black Mambazo, Honoring Shaka Zulu

jabberjustice
November 10th, 2009 at 7:36 pm

Dr. Weems, I feel you. More than you know….

When I feel like crawling in a safe dark hole, or–as I feel today–like pushing the pause button so I can catch-up, I play the most upbeat songs I can find. This season, I’m listening to Pandora Radio (www.pandora.com) a lot. My favorite stations are built around Prince’s “I Wanna Be Your Lover,” Aretha Franklin’s “Rocksteady” and Soul II Soul’s “Keep on Movin’.” For major relief/release, I put on one of the stations and hula hoop until I’m out of breath!

I agree–Fertile Ground is amazing! Their music was a major part of my soundtrack while doing graduate work at Howard.

Donna Olivia
November 10th, 2009 at 7:41 pm

Since you’re on a Lizz Wright kick, she also has a couple of good ones on her second album, “Dreaming Wide Awake.” I suggest two of my Wright faves: Hit the Ground and Trouble.

I also enjoy Norah Jones. Try “Shoot the Moon” from her first album, “Come Away With Me” as well as “Rosie’s Lullaby” and “Not Too Late” from her third one, “Not Too Late.”

jessica
November 10th, 2009 at 7:57 pm

i love that song

samantha
November 12th, 2009 at 5:23 am

Sister Re
For all we know …. we may never meet again …the late Donny Hatahway has it all covered in ” Giving up is Hard to do when you really …really love. Someday we’ll all be Free starts with ” Hang on to the world as it spins around … just dont let the spin get you down….things are moving fast…, oh and one song that is labeled wrong but the muscians on Donnys version cover every room in our heart/house is “the ghetto ” . Remember we were together is Donnys’ melodic finale in his classic “A song For You ” . There it is Sister Renita … O taste and see those wonderful melodies and then … and then… in silence be still and know.

MissPrissy
November 12th, 2009 at 11:55 am

Greetings,

I know this is late but I have been feeling a bit how you describe (Rev. Weems). I created a play list on dizzler.com that I can listen to at work and it contains:

Lauyrn Hill - especially “The miseducation of Lauyrn Hill”, “The Sweetest Thing”, “I Gotta Find Peace of Mind”, “His Eye is On the Sparrow” and “A Change is gonna come”. Her voice just takes me there. I also have some Erykah Badu, “Bag Lady”, Sade, “Never as good as the First time”, Anita Baker, “Angel”, and then cuz I love Anita, I added “You Bring Me Joy, Giving You the Best that I got and Been so Long” for good measure. Also got some Lizz Wright,”My Heart” Nina Simone, “I Put a Spell on You”, “Everything Must Change”, “Browned Eyed Handsome Man” and Jill Scott of course, “Honey Molasses”, “The Way”, and “Long Walk”. After all that I end with Stevie Wonder, “Boogie on Reggae Woman” because it always gets me moving.

Enjoy!

Rev cj
November 18th, 2009 at 2:12 pm

I love a good love song. It reminds me of how much God loves me and how much I love God.

Check out
Your Smile Rene & Angela
Love Me Down - Atlantic Starr
Aint Nobody - Chaka Khan & Rufus
For the Love of you - Isley Brothers
You - Raheim DeVaughn
Do You - NeYo
Heaven - Layla Hathaway
There is no Greater Love - Fred Hammond

Put these songs on, then tell us how your soul feels.

Much love and admiration
Clynne

Clynne
November 18th, 2009 at 9:29 pm

I know I’m late, but try some of these artists:
Brown Baby Girl (any of hers)
Catherine Russell (I’m Just Lazy That’s All)
Nnenna Freelon (any of hers)
Somi
Teraesa (correct spelling) Vinson
Sophie Berkal-Sarbit (Gypsy in My Soul)

Princess
November 19th, 2009 at 5:25 pm

You’ve probably transitioned out of the mood you described in the post, but I just stumbled across this blog. I know that indescribable middle place well. The equivalent of an overcast day backlit by the sun. Should you ever find yourself back there again, I’d agree with the posters who suggested Fertile Ground– particularly the songs “Seasons Change,” “On This Day,” “Live in the Light” and some others. For this mood, I also like Disc One of Djavan’s Ao Vivo album. Take a listen to Concha Buika’s Mi Nina Lola CD. Maybe Abbey Lincoln’s Turtle’s Dream or her People in Me. Perhaps some Ahmad Jamal or Abdullah Ibrahim. Nnenna Freelon’s old CD titled Listen. Most of Cesaria Evora’s stuff would fit in this category. And what can I say about Lizz Wright– moving, so very soulful.

Indigo Woman
November 20th, 2009 at 1:05 am

well i am a month late but i am surprised no one mentioned ruth brown’s- songs of my life- great mid/later life reflections

tabatha atwood
December 27th, 2009 at 7:14 pm


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